As children we have to ask permission before making a move, as adults we hold ourselves back because of morals, inhibitions, finances, security, being scared and numerous other excuses on why we shouldn't take risks, seek adventure, step outside of our comfort zone and open ourselves up to fail.
The 15th -17th centuries man kind set off on an age of exploration. People risked everything they had, life included, to set out and explore the world, find treasure, change their atmosphere. This fearless exploration enhanced society with knowledge and wisdom. We found the world was not flat, delicious spices and salts could make food a delicacy, and new nations were born. Somewhere we have become too eager to accept safe. There is very little land left to claim, but what about in our own lives?
This past week, as I sat around a table with friends and cocktails, we jokingly suggested jumping in a car and driving to New Orleans for the weekend. A day later, I was sitting in Cafe Du Monde eating beignets at 11 pm. There was no reason not to actually jump in the car and go. What did I miss? 40 degree temperatures, storms and flooding. What did I experience? 85 degrees, sunny, a food festival, many cocktails and random adventure.
We all have a bucket list, but why wait until you are on death's door to check it off? Jump on it. I have established a firm belief of living on a whim. Structure is great. Making sure all priorities are done is very important, but life isn't filled with musts. Musts become excuses.
A girlfriend once suggested that regrets aren't based off of the things we do, but the things we miss out on. I subscribe to that belief. Failure translates into experience and knowledge. Missed opportunity translates into regret. Cut the safety net and experience life!
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